what's the big deal with relationships,really? as in..bgrs. yeaps. everytime i come online,one of the first questions my pri sch mates ask is " do you have a stead?"like,er?stead here..stead there..what's the use?yeap..agree with u josh,what's wrong with people who have been dating for nine years?i think it's an example all of us should follow!like,what's with the amazement on the faces when i mention couples who have been together for three years..or even half a year for that matter.what.is it the cool thing to get into a socalled relationship for three days and break again?like,both parties are so unfeeling that it's so easy to just break and break just like that?maybe they are unconscious of it,but wont it even leave a scar?like,ever wondered what happens when u stead with someone and break one,two months later?it's not only the guys.there's this big misconception about guys the one who break the girl's heart.nope.so wrongg.flirting,giving guys the wrong signals when u dont actually like him,yet giving him the "c'mon!" sign just to feel good that someone likes you?like,he likes you?okay.stop at that.i mean,flirting isnt gonna work.he's still going to pester you,and you are only gonna hurt him.i mean unless..he's the kind who cant get you go get another one kind of guy larr.which is like hello?senseless? is it fun to show off?"hey.i had 1..2..3...4.. steads!he kissed me.he hugged me.he gave me this.he gave me that.blahh.and how did we break?oh.that feeling was gone!.oh.his friend looked cuter!oh.he scolded me".like?any sense?people wont see u as wow..u really are attractive?i'll label it as cheap?flirtatious?dont go around saying i love you when you dont.you think it's love?dont kid me with love at first sight.love is gradual.if it's at first sight,it's infatuation.how can u see into a person's soul and character just by looking at the eyes?dont go around steadying and breaking one after another.it isnt worth it.how much of your heart will there be left for your one and true spouse?what's the hurry to grow up and have a partner?singlehood is the best time of your life when God has plans for you..which you should be doing your best to fulfil instead of whispering sweet nothings to someone who will only be with you for a while.why not search eternal happiness rather than to cut of one chunk of your heart for JUST that moment of pleasure?is it worth it?you mean a relationship is worth more than your heart?and think about the person you hurt.you think they're just gonna treat it as part of life?yes they will,but you can just walk in and out without leaving something behind?noone is perfect.you cant probably leave the scene without leaving evidence.if you've got the guts to stead,have the guts to take responsibility to explain.they are owed that muchh.
ok. i feel much bettter.i have MORE to say.but..my hands are tired.haha.